Wit Without Wisdom, Ep. 06
It’s pretty common to hear someone say, “Hey, I’m not perfect.” But it is also a tough confession to make. Truth is, a lot of us spend a lot of time trying to achieve our own versions of personal perfection.
Social media has put us all in the public spotlight. It’s important that our lives appear a “certain way.” I mean, not you of course, it’s just the rest of us using photo filters, picking and choosing our relationship updates, and making sure our hair is just right before we take that selfie.
In fact, there is an entire cottage industry devoted to self-exposing body imperfections on Instagram . . . with perfect hair, make up, and attire of course.
Now, we may never (and probably should never) reach the point where we’re publically trashing our relationship or making confessions like, “Wow, that latte LITERALLY ran right though me!” But has the desire for perfection gone too far?
So, after three hours of editing to ensure the episode is just right, we’re discussing perfection, its impact, and why it’s easier to say, “There’s no such thing as perfect!” but far more difficult to accept it for ourselves.
Plus, we cover:
Why judgy people are more likely to be perfectionist
How confidence plays its own role
How your childhood may play a part in your need to be perfect
Ways to give up on perfection and survive
And a whole lot more. Well, not a whole lot, but some other stuff too.
By Writers After Dark
We’re S.K. Anthony and Raymond Esposito, your hosts at Writers After Dark. She writes those urban-fantasy–superhero-badass-chicks-with-a-touch-of-romance stories and he writes those dark fiction-things-that-go-bump-in-the night tales.
When it comes to writing, we don’t agree on genre, but we do agree that . . . we love stories . . . and one of the things we love most: hanging out in our mostly-sober, Writers After Dark studio and debating the merits of just about anything related to the story of life.